Love

Forever is a long time; for everlasting time. Some are afraid of committing to the idea of forever, but accepting the reality of forever, and not being apprehensive of committing, is part of what true love is about.

It is not always immediate however that each lover will fully commit, and in seeking true love you must understand that love is patient.

And during this acceptance, you must realize that all relationships have their seemingly perfect, and imperfect times, but during these times you must know that you have to be loving and understanding, and know that love is kind.

Once you have both reached this confidence, you must never desire what you see, but instead be more than grateful for what you have, because love does not envy.

You must realize how amazing is the love you share and remind each other every single day how thankful you are to have such love, but you must never take it for granted and always know that love does not boast.

Everyone has their flaws, and it is accepting another's flaws that makes love real. But you must understand that part of a relationship entails fixing certain aspects of your personality to better your relationship for each other, not being arrogant to the idea of change, and realizing that love is not proud.

Portraying your feelings to the one you love is very vital to a healthy relationship. Even if you do not understand why they may feel a certain way, you must show effort in trying to fix whatever it is they are upset about, rather than to deny that it may be your fault that they are feeling this way. Thus, you must understand that love is not rude.

When in love, you must realize that all things will eventually become shared. Problems will be shared, feelings will be shared, material possessions will be shared, and eventually finances will be shared. You must never be selfish and you must always know that love is not self-seeking.

There are always going to be things that will bother you about the other person, it is inevitable. You must learn to accept the fact that no one is perfect, and you must not be short tempered with the one you love. Things, whether little or big, you must understand that love is not easily angered.

There may be tension that arises within a relationship, and you may not always agree. You must understand that you can not always be right, and being wrong once in a while is acceptable to say the least, but when you are right, you must not be boastful because love keeps no record of rights, and more importantly, love keeps no record of wrongs.

Everyone makes mistakes every once in a while and you must accept the fact of human error. If they truly love you, they will understand how much they hurt you, and will always regret doing what they have done. That regret is punishment enough, you do not need to constantly remind them of their faults, because they themselves will always be aware of them, and they will become stronger because of it. Recognizing your mistake and being truthful about it is very important in a relationship, because love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

Loving someone and being loved in return gives you a feeling of security. Knowing that the love between you is real is fact enough to keep you together. You must always take care of one another throughout everything that happens, because love always protects.

You may have your doubts or your suspicions at times, but if it is true love, you must not be worried. Even if problems do arise, if you both truly love each other, you must learn to forgive with your whole heart, because love always trusts.

You must not be apprehensive about dreaming of the future. Having full faith in your relationship is what will keep it strong throughout the years to come, love always hopes.

If you understand all of these things, then your love can make it though anything, come what may. Forever and ever, love always perseveres.

Most importantly of all you must never give up, you must never lose hope, you must always trust, you must always have faith, and you must understand that for love, it is always always always worth it. LOVE NEVER FAILS.






" Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."
1 Corinthians 13:4-8

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